Massive tears pooled in my eyes, but, amazingly, for 15 minutes, they did not fall.They were stoic.Just like my friend, John Jarrard.Sitting at a table in a sequined dress for a black-tie event, I watched the video that honored that wonderful man.There are many stories I could tell about him, but the one that stuck stubbornly in my head for those 15 minutes was the d...